Kinky Resources - S&M Treats

I ran across several book references last night, so I thought I'd at least make note of the them here.  I'll let you know my feedback once I devour them.  lol However, I did add a little review of Morpheous' first book that I read about two years ago.

If anyone has any other suggestions, please let me know!

Enjoy!  And stay cool!
~DominaKat

Upcoming Reading List:

• Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns by Philip Miller
• SM 101 by Jay Wiseman
• Your Pain, My Pleasure -- Inside the Mind of a Sexual Sadist by FifthAngel 
• Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by William Brame, Gloria Brame, Jon Jacobs

On My Bookshelf:

How to be Kinky: A Beginner's Guide to BDSM by Morpheous:  This was the first door I opened to the lifestyle.  Needless to say, I haven't looked back.  Morpheous' great overview...

1. Made me feel extremely comfortable with the practical potential and application of all the shit that had been plaguing my mind for an entire decade.
2. Helped me make sense of the conversation around me as I met and learned from others in the lifestyle. 

It is definitely a beginner's guide and that was exactly what I needed at the time.  It was an excellent springboard to jumping in the pool so to speak!

Another Kinky Resource

Yes, my Spock side is currently fascinated with understanding pain. My previous "Subspace" post was focused on the results. However, this article gets into the chemical cause of that delicious natural high. I found this compliments of Fet's Viri Dominant forum.  Thought I'd share..

What impact do endorphins and or serotonin have against adrenaline?

For other pain centric resources, check out my List I.

~shrug~  I know.  No yummy smut, but information and understanding goes a LONG way toward helping everyone make the most of an experience.  Oh and yes...submissives should learn too.  Ignorance ain't cute.  Pull your weight too s's.  And for any wanna be D/M's afraid of educating their submissives...what?  Afraid she might grow passed your lazy ignorant ass???

LOL  Yeah...I've had my fill lately of silly assholes posing as god's gift and saviors to women. ~eye roll~ I can barely believe those fools could take care of a goldfish let alone a submissive.

Huh...I went off on a tangent there.  lol  ;-)
~DominaKat

Kink Resources: List I

Augh...I have a ton of bookmarks, emails, thread links I've saved because the info I read was helpful and insightful.  I'm just going to start posting here and as needed in my navigation in order to share with my friends as well as give me a quick way to go back.  FYI:  Some are links to Fet content, so you'll have to be a member to read.  (Go ahead...Join!  Trust me...you'll never be the same.  Hehehehe)

• Slave Heart by SirRender (Fet link)...I was moved beyond belief.  Reading it changed me forever.  All of a sudden my life made sense.  Oh...Guys/Doms should absolutely read it too!!!
• Consent and Law Enforcement (Fet link):  Good information to review.  Being able to handle a sticky situation is sexy.  Trust me!
• Processing Pain articles on Submissive Guide
• Processing Pain and Being a Masochist 2/3/10
• Processing Pain in Play: What is the Natural Process? 4/1/11
• Processing Pain in Play: Negative Pain Management Techniques 4/4/11
• Processing Pain in Play: Positive Pain Management Techniques 4/5/11
• Processing Pain in Play: Learning a Processing Technique 4/6/11
• Processing Pain in Play: What is the Benefit of Pain, Anyway? 4/7/11
• Processing Pain in Play: What Can Interrupt or Block Pain Processing? 4/8/11
• Processing Pain in Play: Overcoming the False Edge 4/9/11

Hope those were helpful!  More to come...
~DominaKat