- To truly explore, discover, and unleash your sensuality requires brutal honesty with yourself. In order to satisfy your needs, it requires that same brutal honesty with others.
- Any good, strong relationship requires compromise and understanding. However everyone has their limits. Letting the ride blow past yours will only end in frustration, hurt, and pain.
- The act of dominance is a desire and ability to command, control and guide one's environment in a manner one wishes. It can only be achieved if it is a natural expression of at least some aspect of one's natural nature. It can not be faked.
- The gift of absolute submission is a gift to a worthy dom and a gift to the submissive as well as it can only be achieved with a dom strong enough mentally, emotionally, and physically to guide the journey.
- Just as in the vanilla world, fear can hold us back - emotionally, mentally, physically.
- Real time BDSM is absolutely intimate. Some treat it carelessly. I do not.